27th August – Memorial of St Monica

Every day I get a section of YOUCAT (Youth version of the Catechism) delivered to my inbox. If you would like to subscribe, email mail@flocknote.com.

A recent excerpt of contemporary interest is: What does the Church have against “marriage without the certificate”?

For Catholics there is no marriage without a church wedding. In that ceremony Christ entersmatrimony into a covenant with the husband and the wife and generously endows the couple with graces and gifts. Older individuals sometimes think they should advise young people to have nothing to do with ceremonies with vows. In their opinion, a marriage is just a rash attempt to combine incomes, perspectives, and good intentions while at the same time publicly making promises that cannot be kept. A Christian marriage is not a game, however, but rather the greatest gift God has devised for a man and a woman who love each other. God himself unites them at a depth that man could not achieve. Jesus Christ, who said, “Apart from me you can do nothing” (Jn 15:5), is present in a lasting way in the sacrament of Matrimony. He is the love in the love of the spouses. His strength is still there, even when the strength of the lovers seems to dry up. That is why the sacrament of Matrimony is anything but a piece of paper. It is like a divine and seaworthy vessel that the loving couple can board a ship that the bride and groom know carries enough fuel to bring them with God’s help to their longed-for destination. Whereas today many people say that there is nothing wrong with uncommitted premarital sex or extramarital relations, the Church invites us to resist this societal pressure clearly and forcefully. (YOUCAT questions 424-425)